It’s a universal holiday moment: you unwrap a gift, your smile stiffens, and internally you’re screaming, “What is this?!”

Whether it’s a thoughtless gesture, the wrong size, or something just not your style, knowing how to respond gracefully is key.

Here’s how you can respond if the Christmas gift you got from your partner was absolutely horrid.

1. Lead with gratitude

Even if the gift misses the mark, appreciate the thought behind it. A simple “Thank you so much, this was very thoughtful” goes a long way toward keeping holiday vibes positive.

2. Avoid over-explaining or faking excitement

You don’t need to gush about the gift. Overacting can feel inauthentic and may confuse your partner. A calm, polite acknowledgment is enough.

3. Focus on the intention, not the item

Remember, gifts often reflect love, effort, or a shared memory. Shift your attention from the object to the sentiment behind it.

4. Plan your honest talk later

If the gift really doesn’t work for you, save the discussion for a calm, non-holiday moment. Frame it kindly: “I love that you thought of me. I’m wondering if we could exchange this for something I’ll use more often.”

5. Use it as a fun holiday story

Sometimes the best response is humor. If the gift is quirky, you can make a lighthearted comment that honors the moment without creating tension.

Remember, the holiday season is about love and connection — not perfection. Even the worst gift can become a story you laugh about for years, keeping your energy high and your relationship intact.