Now that Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco are officially married, one question some fans are asking is whether or not Selena manifested the marriage pipeline with Benny.

Some fans of Selena aren’t too happy about her relationship with any because they feel like he should maybe treat her a little better and not say embarrassing things about her in interviews so often. I’m one of those fans.

I grew up loving Selena on Disney Channel, so I prefer seeing her being treated with love and admiration.

For the most part, it seems like Benny is treating her really well, but I have seen some compilations of him saying things about her that aren’t the best.

However, it’s Selena‘s relationship. It’s her marriage. It’s her decision what she wants to do and who she wants to be with.

And if you consider yourself to be a true fan of her, it’s best to support her for where she’s at, and what she wants to do with her life instead of giving off hate her energy. So I’m not here to give off hater energy.

I just want to analyze the question of whether Selena manifested her marriage with Benny or not. And I do have a handful of reasons why I believe she did successfully manifested the marriage pipeline with her man.

That “B” initial ring

First, Selena was rocking the first letter of Benny’s name on her ring finger way before they were engaged.

She hadn’t gotten an actual engagement ring from him yet, but she was wearing a “B” initial ring on her ring finger, which in my opinion, was one step towards embodying bride energy.

She posted a pic of her wearing the diamond be initial ring in December 2023 when she was hard launching her relationship with Benny.

It was in the early days of their relationship, but she was ready for everyone to know that their relationship was real and that it was something special to her.

It was a significant moment because it marked the public confirmation of her romance with Benny. But in my opinion, it also heavily pushes the narrative of her manifestation pipeline to marriage with Benny.

Most people don’t wear any rings on their ring finger on purpose because it specifically signifies marriage. But she wore that ring on that finger before they were engaged or married, which shows that she was at least openhearted to taking the next step.

And when it comes to manifestation, one of the biggest factors play is your willingness to embody the energy of what you’re trying to call into your life. So wearing that ring (in a way) helped call in an actual proposal, engagement, and marriage.

When Selena described her ideal man

Secondly, Selena was once quoted talking about the Ideal man who she’d love to end up with if it wasn’t too complicated to make it happen.

She spoke to Vogue Australia, and said, “I’d be so stoked with a writer or producer or actor who is low-key, but those guys are terrified of me!”

Ultimately, she manifested a relationship with Benny, who happens to be a songwriter, producer, and actor. And fortunately for her, he’s captivated by her instead of terrified of her.

Her fear was not a low-key type of dude would be terrified of her, likely because they wouldn’t be able to handle her level of fame.

But the thing that makes Benny different is that he’s spent so many years in the entertainment industry behind the scenes, working with some of the biggest artists and most famous people ever.

It’s true that he’s low-key, but he’s not low-key enough to be terrified of Selena‘s level of fame and status.

As a reminder, he’s worked with the likes of Katy Perry, Kanye West, Maroon 5, and he even used to work with Selena’s ex-boyfriend, Justin Bieber.

It would take a lot for someone like Benny to be starstruck or terrified. But he did hit the trifecta of what Selena was manifesting for herself, and finding a low-key partner who worked as a writer, producer, or actor.

Wedding dress embodiment

Third, let’s talk about the power of embodiment in the world of the law of attraction. When you are on a manifestation journey, inviting the energy of what you’re trying to call in is absolutely crucial.

And I believe Selena made this happen when she dressed like a bride and embody that energy while filming an episode of Only Murders in the Building.

Law of attraction teachers will always say how important it is to embody the energy of your wish fulfilled. And I’m no different. That something I learned from Neville Goddard.

Living in the wish fulfilled before your wish has actually been fulfilled is one of the ways you can sort of take a shortcut to reaching your manifestations.

There’s no doubt that Selena got deep into the energy of being a bride and being a wife when she dawned that beautiful white wedding gown for that episode of her hit TV show.

There are so many ways people can go about embodying the energy of the wish fulfilled. When I was still in the manifestation process looking to meet my husband, there were things I would do to embody the energy of already being a wife.

For example, I slept on one side of the bed to energetically show God that I was ready to make space for my future husband to lay in bed with me.

I moved all of my clothing over to one side of my closet to show God that I was energetically making space for my husband to join me and fill the other half of the closet with his things.

There are little things you can do to live in the wish fulfilled and embody the energy of your manifestation. And sometimes, dressing the part is a major way that you can do it.

Selena made energetic space

Fourth, let’s talk about the way the universe blesses you with exactly what you’re manifesting when you make space for the right thing to come into your life.

By showing self-respect and self restraint and removing toxic people from your life, it allows the floodgates to open for the right people to come along.

In Selena‘s case, the toxic person that needed to be removed was Justin Bieber. Their relationship was super chaotic and unhealthy. They dated off and on for 10 years from 2008 until 2018. It was a hot mess.

Selena opened up about the way that relationship negatively impacted her mental health on many occasions. So when Justin permanently removed himself from her life by marrying Haley Bieber, it allowed space to open up in Selena‘s life for the right person to enter.

Often times, people try to hold onto toxic relationships with ex-boyfriends, situationships, friends with benefits, or other people who just want to hook up with you casually.

And that’s a problem because you’re allowing that person to take up the energetic space that should be cleared out and open for the right person to come along.

The longer you entertain people who are wrong for you, the longer you show God that you aren’t really serious about attracting your soulmate.

The longer you’re just dragging this whole thing out, showing the universe that you don’t really believe you’re worthy of finding love with the right person because you keep wasting your youth with someone who is completely fine with wasting your time.

Selena let the whole world know that she was absolutely and forever done with that relationship when she released the song Lose You to Love Me in 2019.

In the lyrics, she sings, “We’d always go into a blindly. I needed to lose you to find me. This dancing was killing me softly. I needed to hate you to love me.“

In other words, these lyrics are proof that she realized she was better off, never reopening that wound and leaving that door shut forever. And by doing that, she allowed herself time to heal, grow, and evolve.

And sue that growth, she was able to attract someone who actually makes her feel happy.

Selena’s lyrics that manifested true love

Fifth, let’s talk about some of Selena‘s most lovey-dovey lyrics that emphasize exactly what it means to manifest romance, true love, and marriage.

For starters, her most obvious song Love You Like a Love Song, which was released in 2011, gives off hard-core manifestation vibes.

Manifestation practices often include expressing your wants and needs through art. For musicians, their art is expressed through their lyrics and the songs they’re willing to record and release for listeners.

In Love You Like a Love Song specifically , the lyrics are ideal for any marriage minded person to lean into. Selena sings, “You are beautiful. Like a dream come alive, incredible. A centerfold, miracle, lyrical. You saved my life again. And I want you to know, baby… I love you like a love song.”

And if you really analyze those lyrics on a serious level, you’ll hear words that a woman passionately in love would say to her husband.

In another part of the song, she sings, “You play through my mind like a Symphony. There’s no way to describe what you did to me. You just do to me what you do. And it feels like I’ve been rescued. I’ve been set free. I am hypnotized, by your destiny. You are magical, lyrical, beautiful. You are. And I want you to know, baby. I love you like a love song.”

In this part of the song where she talks about being hypnotized by his destiny, it’s giving marriage vibes to me because when you marry someone, you’re choosing a covenant and how you want the rest of your destiny to play out.

You’re choosing to live out the rest of your life with your chosen partner. And she also sings about feeling rescued and being set free.

When you meet your soulmate and decide that it’s the person you want to be with forever, it genuinely feels like you’ve been rescued from some level of loneliness or darkness.

It genuinely feels like you’ve been set free. From personal experience, I started feeling exactly the way she’s singing when I met my husband. It felt like I had been set free.

It felt like life was finally worth living. I know that’s a super dramatic way to describe it, but it honestly felt that way when I met my husband. So for that reason, I feel like these lyrics, really heavily lean into manifestation language.

In 2013 she released the song Love Will Remember with lyrics that say, “Love will remember you and love remember me. I know inside my heart. Forever will forever be ours.”

The usage of the word forever gives marriage language, even though that particular song is a breakup song. It’s a song about wanting to reconcile, get back together, and make it work for the long haul.

In 2020, she released a song called Vulnerable that is filled with language that resembles a conversation between two people who are engaged to be married.

In this song, Selena sings, “If my love was like a flower, would you plant it, would you grow it? I might give you all my body, are you strong enough to hold it?”

And after that she asks him what would happen if she showed him her demons and told him all her secrets and her weaknesses and stayed vulnerable with him.

The lyrics represent a woman showing her most vulnerable and honest side to the man she loves in hopes that he will respond by accepting her for exactly who she is.

Selena & Benny’s joint album

Sixth, Selena Gomez released an entire album of love songs with Benny Blanco in 2025 before he officially popped the question and asked her to be his wife.

They released an album called I Said I Love You first together that gave a lot of hint that they were headed in the direction of marriage. But keep in mind that the album was recorded and released before their engagement actually took place.

But life imitates art, which is a manifestation fact. And that entire album serves as pre-marriage energy for the couple.

If you’ve never seen The Secret, now is the time to watch it. It is one of the best movies to watch if you want to educate yourself on manifestation and the law of attraction, if all of this information is needed to you.

In the movie, the concept of life imitating art is focused on when a man complains that he would like to manifest a relationship with a good woman.

He’s an artist and a lot of his paintings are of beautiful women who come across as very mysterious and elusive. He gets advice from a friend to start painting images of happy couples who are passionately in love with each other.

So he starts painting images of happy couples, and soon enough, he attracts a relationship with a beautiful woman who actually sticks around. She isn’t mysterious or elusive, similar to the women in his earlier paintings.

And that’s just one example of the way life constantly imitates art. The type of art you’re producing and putting out into the world speaks volumes about what you are going to attract in your current reality.

Selena’s self-love with launching Rare Beauty

Seventh, let’s talk about the launch of Rare Beauty and the way that filters into the way Selena’s marriage with Benny ended up manifesting.

Selena initially launched Rare Beauty in September 2020, and it was a big deal in the make up and cosmetics space.

But it was also a big deal in the mental wellness space since the entire rare beauty brand focuses on mental health, individuality, and self-love.

And as much as people want to discount self-love as a cop out when it comes to manifesting romantic love, self-love actually really does matter.

When you don’t have self love, and you’re leaning into feelings of self, hate, you’re showing God that you are not worthy of being loved by anyone, since you can’t even show up for yourself and love yourself.

So Selena’s launch of Rare Beauty served as evidence that she was stepping into a new lane and walking down a new path of self-love. She was elevating herself to the point of knowing she deserve to be loved properly by the right person.

The official rare beauty website says that it’s “makeup made to feel good in, without hiding what makes you unique.”

The entire brand is about embodying, self-love, and at its core, that’s kind of a big deal when embodying romantic love. If self-concept is messed up, which means you have low self-worth, low self-esteem, and low self love, it’s really difficult for you to attract the things you really want to attract into your life.

Therefore, healing self-concept by putting self-love into practice is one of the most important steps in manifesting romantic love. And that’s something Selena clearly did when she decided to launch Rare Beauty.

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