Are you planning to go on a romantic date with someone you’re interested in? If so, there are a few tips you might want to be aware of ahead of time.

Being an elegant woman will take you far in the world of love, based on the type of partners you’re trying to attract.

TikToker and elegance coach @AntoniaHighman has shared several videos with some helpful pointers.

Keep in mind that she’s only offering gentle suggestions to anyone who’s interested in coming across more elegantly. You’re still free to eat and drink your favorite foods however you want.

How to elegantly eat a burger


Antonia explains that elegant women never pick up their burgers with both hands before shoving them into their mouths.

They never pick burgers apart to eat them Ingredient by ingredient, either. Dunking your burger in sauces is also unacceptable.

Her advice is to start by cutting your burger in half with a fork and knife. Then, simply cut the burger into smaller bite-size pieces to eat with your fork.

How to elegantly drink tea


Another video from Antonia describes how to avoid looking tacky while drinking tea. She says you shouldn’t use your spoon to clink around the cup as you’re mixing your tea around.

You also shouldn’t blow harshly into your tea to cool it down. Although you might think you’re supposed to stick your pinky finger out while drinking something from a mug, she advises against doing that as well.

Lastly, Antonia also doesn’t believe anyone should pick up the saucer along with their tea while drinking it.

Instead, drink slowly from your mug while keeping your pinky finger tucked.

How to elegantly eat soup


Antonia doesn’t believe it looks very classy when people dunk pieces of bread directly into their soup bowls for each bite.

She also says we shouldn’t blow on our spoonfuls of soup to cool them down. Additionally, the direction of how you scoop your soup also matters.

From Antonia’s perspective, you shouldn’t spoon the soup toward you before taking a bite.

Instead, spoon the soup away from you and pour the bite into your mouth so you don’t have to worry about making any accidental slurping noises. This method also keeps you from ruining your lipstick.

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