Are wedding jitters normal? Absolutely. If you’re experiencing a wide range of feelings as you wait for your special day to arrive, you’re not alone.

In truth, worries of all shapes and sizes take precedence when organizing a wedding and getting ready to get married. 

This is the stuff of nightmares! When you spend what seems like every waking moment calling vendors and organizing seating arrangements, nightmares about your biggest wedding anxieties are too typical.

The good news is that you can take action! Here are five wedding-related fears you might have:

You start thinking you’ve made the wrong choice

When you discover another wedding concept you like after you’ve committed to another, it’s tempting to start second-guessing yourself about your partner.

You’re paranoid the weather will derail your plans

We’ve all been there, continuously monitoring the forecast and begging the rain gods for a break in the clouds before an outdoor event.

You fear a guest will dress inappropriately

Some people’s worst nightmare is one of their visitors upstaging them in a white costume of their own! Or, you know, your Uncle showing up to your classy cocktail party in shorts.

You want to ensure everyone is on the same page about what to wear, whether a black tie or beach chic.

You’re concerned someone will raise a commotion

A wedding day ruined by family conflict or a visitor gone rogue after too many drinks.

You convince yourself you’re not going to look your best

During the wedding countdown, you may feel pressure to change your appearance through weight reduction, beauty treatments, or undergarments that suck your life out.

Rest assured that these common wedding day fears are NORMAL. If you’re thinking these thoughts, or thinking about things that are even worse, sit down to talk through your feelings with your fiance or a trusted confidante.