As much as you might not want to hear this right now, putting in more effort with your appearance can really upgrade your entire life experience.
Of course, it’s a lot easier to live life when you’re not concerned about how you look before hopping in the car to run errands.
Not stressing about your hair or clothes before work or class is a way more relaxed way to live.
Still, it turns out that it’s completely worth your while to get your appearance together (to some degree) before letting the rest of the world lay eyes on you.
TikToker and femininity coach @Vickita.Trivedi posted a video explaining why sprucing up your look will have you feeling like you’re in an alternate universe.
Why looking presentable at all times actually matters
According to Vickita, her college experience significantly opened her eyes when it comes to outward appearances.
She said she would go out of her way to dress nicely for class before heading to campus each day.
Ironically, she lived with two roommates who never took any steps to look their best.
In her video, she says, “No shade. They just did not care about their appearance – and it showed.”
She went on to explain that whenever they would walk to campus together, people would stare at her and her roommates would notice it.
She said she felt like she was in a completely different universe when this would occur. It’s likely because she felt so inherently confident while others stared at her in awe.
Vickita explains that whenever you’re out with people who don’t care to dress up or make themselves look presentable, it will automatically make you feel like you’re living in a completely different world… even though you’re right next to them.
From Vickita’s perspective, taking care of your appearance doesn’t mean you hate your natural vibe or that you’re trying too hard.
It simply means that you’re enhancing your natural beauty, embracing your sense of value, and practicing genuine self-love.
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