If you’ve been feeling incredibly triggered by the relationship drama surrounding Ariana Grande lately, you’re not alone.

Anyone who’s ever been cheated on or had a partner “stolen” from you can understand how painful this entire situation is.

Social media users have been speaking out in troves about how upsetting Ariana’s patterns truly are.

Many people assume that her relationship with Ethan Slater began blossoming while she was still married to Dalton Gomez, and while Ethan was still married to Lilly Jay.

Here’s what social media users have actually been saying about everything.

Feeling triggered by Ariana Grande is valid

After Lilly spoke to Page Six about losing Ethan to Ariana, social media has been in an uproar.

Lilly outright said, “[Ariana’s] the story, really. Not a girl’s girl. My family is just collateral damage.”

So, what exactly does it mean to be a “girl’s girl,” and why does that matter so much?

Women who would rather seek male validation than respect the boundaries of a marriage are considered shady individuals.

If you’re not a “girl’s girl,” it means you’re only looking out for your own best interest when it comes to men. You really don’t care about how it affects any other women in your orbit.

Unfortunately, plenty of people are starting to feel this way about Ariana following Lilly’s public statement.

To make matters worse, tons of fans have done deep dives on Ariana’s past dating history, breaking on the fact that many of her relationships have stemmed from messy drama just like this.

No one has forgotten the way her relationship with Pete Davidson started while he was barely broken up from Cazzie David.

What about when the late Naya Rivera wrote about Ariana hanging out with Big Sean while Naya was still dating the rapper in her autobiography?

At the end of the day, it’s perfectly normal if you’re feeling triggered about everything going on with Ariana at the moment.

Here’s to hoping things start turning around so her actions don’t remain this way forever.