Everything about your relationship is amazing. You’re totally in love, happy, and excited about the future – except for one thing.

What do you do when your partner’s friends are bad influences?

Telling your partner to cut off their friends is beyond f***ed up and messy. But watching your partner repetitively fall into bad scenarios with their friends is problematic, too.

How to deal with it when your partner’s friends are bad influences

Pay attention to the behaviors and actions of your partner’s friends. If they aren’t quality people, that says a lot about who your partner is deep inside.

Human beings tend to attract friendships with others who we resonate with in terms of our morals and lifestyle choices.

If your partner is surrounded by friends who cheat on their spouses, lack ambition, or crack inappropriate jokes all the time, you have every right to feel concerned about who your partner really is behind closed doors.

Without giving your partner an ultimatum that tells them to cut off their friendships, bring your concerns to their attention.

Compile a list of all the inappropriate times you’ve seen your partner get influenced by their friends so they can analyze it for themselves.

Describe the ways your relationship has been directly impacted by these instances in detail.

If your partner seems completely unbothered by what you’re telling them, you may have a bigger problem on your hands.

Reevaluate whether or not you want to stay in a relationship with someone who resonates with people who don’t have good intentions.