Being single doesn’t have to be a negative thing. Plenty of people spend their single era on the hunt for their special person.
Truth be told, one of the best things you can do for yourself is to allow yourself time to be alone in order to properly heal from past heartache, trauma, and emotional distress.
Being alone with your own thoughts also gives you an opportunity to learn new things from within.
TikToker @Daijame shared a video breaking down why your single era should be your healing era. Find her on Instagram @daija.me.
Learn new things from within while you’re alone
Diaja’s video on TikTok starts with a personal anecdote about her decision to stay in without making plans over the weekend.
She acknowledged the fact that not doing anything made her feel slightly guilty, but it also gave her the opportunity to gain an understanding of some new things.
Daija said that when asked about what she learned while spending time alone, she struggled to answer at first – then suddenly, she was able to rattle off tons of insight.
She explained, “I started spitting out so many things I was learning! Like, so many ideas that I got. So many different thoughts and perspectives on certain things.
“It was crazy to hear myself have a different thought process and perspective, totally different than the girl I was two weeks ago.”
Daija goes on to note that there’s so much healing that can take place when you allow yourself to simply be.
Exist in your skin. Experience each day. Live in the moment. Learn, grow, and evolve.
Odds are, the greatest moments of clarity you’ll receive will occur in times when no one else is around to distract you or alter your energy.
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