“A lot of our fears and our shadow expects are related to insecurity, instability, and the lack of emotional stability which are directly tied to money and how a romantic partner makes us feel”, according to TikToker @iamlaurachung.

She goes into this concept even deeper and explains how to combat not being able to manifest your romantic and financial desires. 

The connection between love and money manifestation

You start by looking at your childhood trauma and your response to it as an adult. 

During childhood, your prefrontal cortex was not developed, which is the part of the brain that carries out deep thinking and problem-solving. 

This hindered your ability to see the truth of situations at times.  You learn directly from your environment and take on the same beliefs as the people in your life. 

For example, if you had a parent who was always complaining about their financial situation, you may grow up to feel that same stress towards yours. 

You might view money as an annoyance and start to believe that financial success is nothing but a faraway dream. 

Or if you had parents who constantly argued back and forth, you may start to view romantic relationships as a stressor in your life as well. 

You might view them as a burden instead of the beautiful, harmonious union of souls that it really is. 

“So then as I’m growing up into an adult, this is my resistance to money and a romantic partner.  Now it’s not to say that I wasn’t able to make a lot of money or have romantic partners in my lifetime, but there was still the shadow aspect within me that I needed to heal”, she explains. 

The ultimate goal is to identify these past beliefs that stem from childhood trauma and reframe them in a way that’s beneficial to you. 

In doing so, both your romantic relationships and your financial situation will flourish!