So, you’ve finally matched with someone who meets your standards, but you’re worried if the conversation will fizzle?
What are they really like? Can I have a meaningful, long-lasting conversation with them?
TikTok user @datewithkait has just a few tips that we’d love to share for you to get those deep, intimate conversations.
Truth or Dare?
A truth or dare question will get you to engage immediately. Say something daring but unobtrusive, like “screenshot the last thing you Googled” to get an idea of what kind of stuff they’re into;
You can also get the truth out of them with questions like “What was your last date like?”
Ask them a weird, random question
Ask them a straight up out-there, weird question, something that really makes them stop and think. If you ask them something random like “what’s your favorite drink at the beach?”
These kinds of questions will force them to start really thinking of a good answer, and you can start building things from there (but don’t be too weird, or you might drive them away!)
Comment on their profile
Typical questions like “What are you doing this weekend?” aren’t going to catch someone’s attention.
Instead, you should look at their profile. Ask a question about one of their experiences or talk about how fun one of their photos looks.
They may be interested enough to ask about your profile and what you’ve been up to, and you can really get to some deep, long-lasting conversations.
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