Here’s some advice about love and dating, straight from Ariana Grande!
The “Thank U Next” singer has been in a serious relationship with Ethan Slater since they met on the set of Wicked.
Many might assume Ariana isn’t an expert on romance since she has a long list of exes with a few toxic origins, but that doesn’t mean she isn’t destined for her own happily ever after fairytale ending.
Ariana knows a thing or two about making it in Hollywood as a successful musician. Let’s see if she knows a thing or two about relationship advice.
Here’s a roundup of her best gems.
First, never take the blame for your partner’s mistakes.
In a now-deleted Tweet via Elite Daily, Ariana tweeted, “I am not a babysitter or a mother and no woman should feel that they need to be… shaming/blaming women for a man’s inability to keep his [bleep] together is a very major problem.”
This is advice all women should listen to. It’s not a woman’s job to take on a motherly role in a man’s life.
And she should never be blamed if her partner continually fails to figure out his path.
Second, never go to sleep angry at your partner.
Ariana’s next piece of advice? She told Z100 New York, “Never go to bed without kissing goodnight. That’s the worst thing to do. Don’t ever ever ever do that.”
The reason this advice is so necessary is that anything can happen to you or your partner in the middle of the night.
It’s best to make sure you are on good terms with each other every night because tomorrow isn’t promised.
Third, learn to stick it out; even when things get tough or intense.
In Ariana’s song “POV,” she sings, “Still getting good at not leaving. I’ma love you even though I’m scared.”
This line is a reminder that sticking it out through rough patches is fully possible. No matter how tough or intense it gets, she talks about her desire to stay anyway.
She also describes the feeling of loving her partner, even though she has anxiety about what’s to come.
We now know that “POV” was written in honor of her ex-husband, Dalton Gomez, but the sentiment of her words still remains.
Fourth, know the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone.
According to Complex, Ariana said, “Love comes in many different forms. You can love somebody and not be in love with them. They can break your heart and you can cry over it but still not be in love with them. Love is a really peculiar thing.”
Knowing the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone can potentially save you from a lot of heartache.
Fifth and finally, become your own complete person before jumping into a relationship
According to Cosmopolitan, Ariana said, “I’ve never looked at love as something that I need to complete me. I would like to be complete on my own first and fall in love with somebody who is also complete. You can still celebrate and be totally obsessed with each other, but I want to feel a 100% myself so that I can love that person better.”
From her perspective, knowing who you are at your core should be prioritized before you find yourself head over heels in a lovey-dovey relationship.
When you know who you are, it’s easier to stand your ground and stand up for what you believe in without losing yourself while dating someone new.
How do you feel about Ariana’s relationship advice? What are your thoughts on her relationship with Ethan Slater? Let us know your thoughts in the comment section below.
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