Psss…come here yes you.

You can’t control everything(shocker)!

You really can’t and mustn’t try.

We are taught that we control outcomes in our lives but the truth you can only do that to a certain extent.

The results are!

Chronic control freaks.

Haven’t we all done this, but the wise know that trying to control your friends, siblings, traffic weather is going down a rabbit whole.

Mel Robbins put it so well “the more you try to control something,the less in control you feel.”

Here’s another crazy revelation the more you try to control your manifestations the more they feel elusive.

Hence the saying we don’t chase we attract.

But how do you let go of this control thingy?

We understand that it feels so risky and dangerous especially if you’ve been doing it most of your life.

It’s sort of like letting go of the wheel while driving but believe me when I say that this car operates pretty great on autopilot.

You only need to give it the destination.

But before we tell you how, we need you to first understand that you can control your mind only to an extent.

Not external factors like your loved ones or nature, we are all a part of this big simulation where we can only play our roles.

We aren’t the chess movers.

TikTok creator @sophiagraniela  breaks it down.

She begins by stating that if you really want something in life, you have to let go of the how and when and trust in the universe/the giver.

Here are the three steps she gives.

Let go of the who/when/where.you’ve done your part when asking and aligning yourself now rest easy.

Relinquish control. Sophia puts it so beautifully: “You can’t control the future.” You really can’t, but you can ask yourself which actions you can take now, i.e., self-care.

Patience and faith: These are very key catalysts in manifestation and everyday life. It should be a way of living.

Follow @sophiagraniela who teaches self development.

Here are two statements we would love to leave you with and we hope you carry them and repeat them as often as needed.

• “I release everything that is outside of my control, I choose inner peace.”
• “Everything is always working out for my highest good.”