Woman learns her fiancé secretly filmed their bedroom moments to show his friends… What would you do?

Your partner should never expose you behind your back.

August 10, 2023

The person you choose to spend your life with romantically should be someone you can wholeheartedly trust.

When that person ends up betraying your trust in a sleazy and disgusting manner, is there any way you can rebuild or forgive?

A woman shared her story on Reddit after discovering that her fiancé secretly filmed their most intimate moments in the bedroom to show his friends.

Man admits to sharing intimate footage of his girlfriend with friends

Everything happened before he made things official by asking her to be his girlfriend, but the problematic reality of what he did remains the same.

She found out that his friends had seen pics and videos of their sex life when one of his friends drunkenly spilled the details on a random night out.

She confronted her boyfriend about it and he owned up immediately with a bunch of weak apologies.

He claimed that he stopped filming her and showing people as soon as he started developing real feelings for her.

He also begged her to stay in the relationship by promising that nothing like that would ever happen again.

According to him, men simply do things like this and women just wouldn’t understand.

Redditors who’ve responded in the thread are encouraging her not to forgive and forget what her boyfriend has done.

The seriousness of what he’s done actually goes against modern legality. Recording and distributing adult content of someone without their knowledge or consent gives her every right to press charges against him.

One person wrote, “Think about all of the other women him and his friends have done this to without those women’s knowledge and consent. He told on himself and his friends. They’re predators.”

Someone else added, “Please warn the other women in the friend group. If he thinks “men do it”, the other men in the friend group are also violating their girlfriends like this.”

A third person chimed in saying, “Let’s be honest, this isn’t a ‘red flag’ situation. This is a RUN LIKE HELL BECAUSE YOUR FIANCE IS A MONSTER situation.”