Craving friendship but don’t know where to start?

We live in a world where we can get nearly everything we need virtually. From groceries to entertainment to friendships, there is almost nothing the internet doesn’t offer. 

But, we all long for physical connection, right?

Someone we can get snow cones with on a hot, summer day. Someone who will attend that not so interesting event with us. Someone who will make dinner for us after we’ve had a terrible day.

Here are the top 10 ways you can become more social and develop friendships.

Hobbies

What types of hobbies do you have? Maybe you really enjoy painting. Why not attend a paint party?

Maybe you have enjoyed dancing your entire life. Why not sign up for dance classes?

Despite whether you’re good at it or not, your hobbies can be enjoyed in multiple places, not just the comfort of your own home.

Many people attend classes, events, and parties centered around their favorite hobbies.

To top it off, research shows that spending time on something you enjoy improves your mental health and well-being. Why not make friends while doing it?

Talents

Are you super talented at something, like singing or creating poetry? Take advantage of your talent by performing or frequenting places where you can showcase yourself. 

Friendship is often linked to having something in common. So, why not look for friends in a place that revolves around something you’re really good at? 

Community events 

Are you an active member of your community? Chances are there are loads of events happening right where you live. If you’re being inactive, you’re missing out on so many opportunities.

Whether it’s a festival, a parade, or a farmer’s market, there are likely events occurring within your hometown.

Check out your local newspaper, Facebook group, or other media to get in touch with what is happening around you. 

There is no greater friend than someone who lives nearby!

Be kind

Think about it. Are you going to want to stir up conversation with the girl in the corner who snickered at the waitress when she dropped a soda? No! 

Be nice to others, treat others the way you want to be treated, and prove that you can be a good friend. People are attracted to kindness. 

Your job 

You spend 40+ waking hours at your workplace every week. Why not take advantage of that in more ways than your salary? 

Your co-workers can grow to become your confidants if you are open-minded enough to let them in. 

Mixing business with pleasure is a fine line to walk, but you see these people on a daily basis. Stir up conversation, see if you share common interests, and ask them out on a coffee date.

Reach out 

Missing your old buddies from high school? Reach out to them. 

Chances are, just like you, they haven’t reached out because life is busy and chaotic. Look them up on social media, shoot them a message, and catch up with them. 

Get out 

Are you a homebody? Do you spend your Friday nights in front of your TV? That’s no way to make friends. 

Step out of your comfort zone and enjoy nightlife. Get out of the house and go bowling, to a bar, to a nightclub, or simply go to the dog park. 

Not only will this give you a chance to socialize with others, but you might just find your next best friend. 

Frequent your favorite cafe

Do you have a favorite cafe, coffee shop, or some place you frequent often? Instead of running in and out with your favorite coffee in hand, take time to sit down and enjoy yourself.

Many people spend time in environments like this because it makes them feel cozy, welcome, and happy.

If you attend regularly, you’re going to find people who enjoy the place just as much as you do. 

Having something like this in common is enough of a reason to strike up conversation. 

Volunteer

There are numerous volunteer opportunities in every city. If you have a heart for helping others, chances are the people who surround you do as well.

Take this opportunity to get to know people better because they clearly have a kind heart, just like you. 

Apps and social media

If all else fails, or you suffer from social anxiety, hope is not lost. As mentioned, we can find anything on the internet.

There are a multitude of apps that are made specifically for seeking friendship. 

There are also local social media groups where you can find people near you. Don’t be afraid to reach out to them and plan a meet-up.