Making sure all of your friendships stay intact while you’re in a romantic relationship is undeniably important.
If your friendships fall apart because you’re dating someone, you’ll end up alone and isolated with no one to depend on aside from your romantic partner.
And if things go south in your relationship, you’ll have no friends to reach out to for support.
TikToker @kyli.no.e stitched a video with Sahar Khorram to give some insight.
Maintain your friendships while you’re in a romantic relationship
Kyli explains, “I don’t know who needs to hear this, but if you’re in capable of nurturing your friendships whenever you get into a romantic relationship, you’re not going to have any friendships when you need them.
“If the vast majority of y’all actually did go ghost in an effort to add value to your life, maybe I would buy it… But let’s be clear.
“The majority of y’all, when you dip on your friends, are not building your dream life. You’re building up that man.
“And if that relationship comes crashing down, the first place you’re running to is those high-maintenance friendships that you had to let go of in order to live your dream life.”
It’s not exactly fair to try and rekindle friendships with people you’ve neglected whenever you want to.
Healthy friendships exist when two people are equally there for each other on a consistent basis.
Kyli’s video raked in more than 50,000 likes and over 5000 bookmarks. It’s clear that plenty of people resonate with her message.
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