Finding love can be a complicated feat – but it doesn’t have to be.
“You want him to be obsessed with you and commit to you? This is the video for you. I’m gonna tell you exactly what needs to happen”, TikToker @its.elizabethanne asks.
She explains the key to getting a high-value man to become dedicated to making you his. And it’s a lot more simple than you think.
Become OBSESSED with yourself first
“You’re gonna have to be obsessed with and commit to yourself.”
Healthy men want freedom to be able to live their lives. They want to be able to keep up with their hobbies, their friends, and their financial endeavors.
They don’t want to feel like they’re tied down to a less fulfilling life by being with you and having to be the source of your joy.
“You’ve gotta be responsible for your fucking happiness.”
If you’re always wondering what he’s doing, when does that leave time for you?
You shouldn’t be so invested in another person that you become emotionally dependent on them.
Invest that energy into yourself.
“This type of man doesn’t want a ‘please choose me or I’m gonna lose all my shit and my life is gonna fall apart’ type of woman. He just doesn’t want that. He wants the woman that is selfish and chooses herself.”
This shouldn’t alarm you. This is actually great news for you. This means you’ll get to do whatever makes you happy and gets you closer to your best life.
You’ll simultaneously be putting your love life on easy mode.
“He’s gonna be envisioning this level of commitment with you that involves more freedom for himself instead of perceiving it as taking away his freedom because he’s gotta spend all of his time validating your insecurities and filling your voids.”
He’s going to love that you can handle your own. It’s only going to make him want to give you even more than he would have in the first place.
So, start that new hobby, explore that new career field, and get that degree!
“Before you know it, he’ll be on one knee wanting to give you the whole world. All because he didn’t feel like he needed to in order for you to feel happy with your life.”
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