As sh***y as this might be to accept, it’s your responsibility to cut the cord when dealing with someone who isn’t valuing you.

You can’t control other people by magically forcing them to value more, so you’re only option to walk away.

On Self-Love Saturday, let’s dive into what that means.

Walk away when you aren’t being valued

There are several things we have to take responsibility for in our lives. One of those things happens to be walking away from a person who doesn’t see your value.

You don’t need to convince anyone of how valuable you are.

If you’re a good person, odds are, you’ve already shown that in ways that have proven your value over time. It goes without being said.

You don’t have to make lists of all the good things you’ve done for a person to convince them they should value you more.

You simply have to learn when it’s time to walk instead of exerting more effort and energy that will end up feeling like a waste of time.

The good news is that anytime you give someone love, whether they deserve it or not, it’s never a waste.

Whatever you put out into the universe will always come full circle back around to you.

Keep in mind that the person hurting you is likely deeply emotionally wounded themselves.

Healed people don’t hurt other people. It’s hurt people who hurt people.

The love you’ve given them is more than likely something they desperately need.

But regardless of all that, you don’t have to continue being anyone’s doormat. If they don’t see how valuable you are, it’s your responsibility to cut the cord.

Takers will keep taking as long as you give them access. Stop letting them take.