Life can be mellow but not always.

Seeing the silver lining in a dark cloud can be a cliche and harder than it sounds but do we stop giving gratitude?

Do we retrieve to our dark closet and choose to see everything as unfortunate or do we spot the glimmers.

As the saying goes “for every door that closes, a new one must open” you just have to keep your eyes open.

Here are a few life-shuttering circumstances that can lead to way better opportunities than you could have possibly imagined.

Remember that gratitude is a high vibrational practice and whoever has, more shall be added.

We’re are not saying you shouldn’t grieve the circumstances we are about to list below but you should be grateful for the new perspective.

The end of a friendship/relationship.

If a friendship/relationship had to end for one reason or the other you are allowed to cry your heart out for as long as need be.

But guess what the reason matters.

Keeping that in mind new relationships will come about that will not hold “breakup reasons.”

You are now open to receptive and respectful friends and a partner.

More time to work on you.

Loss of a job

This particularly stings especially when you need the money or you dearly loved your job.

But what if it’s making way for a better job? With more benefits, better coworkers, self-employment, passion projects, etc.

You will get through it and emerge victorious.

Relocation to a new city/country

Whether you anticipated for a move or not , maybe it’s your job or family or patner who prompted this.

You get the gift of perspective.

You can finally learn a new culture, sight see, bask in local cuisine.

Failing at something you wanted badly

We feel that this is not talked about enough but mahn..

Failing at something you wanted so badly and worked equally hard for can truly suck.

But here’s the thing you get to feel challenged, start again, change tactics, and experience the pure joy of finally reaching your end goal.

Good things don’t always come easily or right away.