Let’s talk about Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco! Did Selena manifest the marriage pipeline with Benny?

Here’s one major reason why I think she possibly did.

Selena made energetic space

Fourth, let’s talk about the way the universe blesses you with exactly what you’re manifesting when you make space for the right thing to come into your life.

By showing self-respect and self restraint and removing toxic people from your life, it allows the floodgates to open for the right people to come along.

In Selena‘s case, the toxic person that needed to be removed was Justin Bieber. Their relationship was super chaotic and unhealthy. They dated off and on for 10 years from 2008 until 2018. It was a hot mess.

Selena opened up about the way that relationship negatively impacted her mental health on many occasions. So when Justin permanently removed himself from her life by marrying Haley Bieber, it allowed space to open up in Selena‘s life for the right person to enter.

Often times, people try to hold onto toxic relationships with ex-boyfriends, situationships, friends with benefits, or other people who just want to hook up with you casually.

And that’s a problem because you’re allowing that person to take up the energetic space that should be cleared out and open for the right person to come along.

The longer you entertain people who are wrong for you, the longer you show God that you aren’t really serious about attracting your soulmate.

The longer you’re just dragging this whole thing out, showing the universe that you don’t really believe you’re worthy of finding love with the right person because you keep wasting your youth with someone who is completely fine with wasting your time.

Selena let the whole world know that she was absolutely and forever done with that relationship when she released the song Lose You to Love Me in 2019.

In the lyrics, she sings, “We’d always go into a blindly. I needed to lose you to find me. This dancing was killing me softly. I needed to hate you to love me.“

In other words, these lyrics are proof that she realized she was better off, never reopening that wound and leaving that door shut forever. And by doing that, she allowed herself time to heal, grow, and evolve.

And sue that growth, she was able to attract someone who actually makes her feel happy.

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