Tapping into your feminine energy has a greater impact on your sex life than you’d ever guess.

A woman who’s unable to tap into her feminine is a woman who’s stuck in her masculine – which isn’t exactly a good thing if you’re seeking a partner who knows how to properly step up for you.

Femininity coach and Tiktoker @EmilyDini shared a video explaining how these things can impact your love life and your sex life. Find her on Instagram @emilyadini.

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Feminine energy check – Where do you stand?

Emily starts her video by asking her female viewers how they react in moments of stress while with a partner.

If the two of you are driving somewhere and you get lost, do you immediately hop onto your GPS to provide him directions?

If the reservation at the restaurant gets mixed up on date night, do you step forward to speak with the hostess about sorting things out?

If your answers to those questions are “yes,” you might need to fall back a little because you’re definitely in your masculine energy.

Whenever a woman is in her masculine energy with a man, she’s signaling to him that she subconsciously doesn’t trust him and she subconsciously doesn’t think he’s competent enough to be a problem-solver, provider, protector, etc.

When a woman jumps into action to be the problem-solver, provider, or protector, it literally FORCES the man into his feminine energy – even if he doesn’t want that.

And it causes him to subconsciously start viewing her the same way he views his own mother — which is obviously not a sexy thing.

Before a man grows up, he views his mother as the person who always saves the day for him in his boyhood.

But this is not the way he should view his romantic partner. Over time, this dynamic will nearly always subconsciously ruin the sex life of a couple, if it persists

Allow your man to be a problem-solver, provider, and protector. Trust his competency that he will show up for you so you can relax in your feminine energy.

Chances are, your sex life will drastically improve if he’s no longer subconsciously correlating your behaviors and actions to his mother.