It may be hard to believe, but even if you were the cause of a breakup, you have the right to move on.
Listen to @lilmikara give three general but very applicable tips on how you can move on from a relationship, even if you were the dastardly heartbreaker here.
Don’t feel bad for blocking them
if they block you and refuse all contact with you, you would surely understand. The other way around applies as well.
Exercise your ability to keep off contact. This is good for the both of you.
Going no-contact is the easiest way to move on from a broken relationship because staying chitty-chatty can be toxic.
There is always room to grow
The relationship didn’t work out. That doesn’t mean you’re never going to get a date again. Odds are, you’re going to experience lots of new love in the future of your existence.
Learn from this experience and grow into a better partner for the next person you meet.
Your ex will also learn from this experience and get the chance to avoid what didn’t work in the relationship. Now, both of you know what you want to steer clear of.
Apologies mean a lot
If you are able to, you might want to apologize to your ex for your decision. This tip only makes sense if your ex didn’t do anything nasty to cause the breakup like infidelity or abuse.
Don’t apologize just because you think you may get something in return. Your ex may have nothing to do with you anymore, but trying to express an apology one time shouldn’t be a huge problem.
Apologies are good for giving both of you closure and making it easier to let go. Just make sure your apology is actually genuine.
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