New relationships are fun and exciting! They can also be a bit nerve-wracking near the holidays, though.

Suddenly, it’s time to meet the friends and family members of your partner. If you haven’t spent quality time with your partner’s loved ones before, this entire ordeal can feel daunting.

Here are a few simple simple tips on navigating your first holiday season with a new partner.

Get clear about gift expectations

Are you the type of person who expects a pile of romantic gifts from your partner during the holidays? If so, let your partner know exactly what your expectations are.

If you don’t vocalize your needs, they won’t be able to read your mind. Have an open and honest chat about what you hope to receive in a gift exchange. This way, you remove any chance to be disappointed.

Split up the holidays fairly

You and your new partner will have to decide which holidays are being spent with which family members. As a single person, celebrating with your family has likely always been the norm.

Now, you have to decide where you’re headed for Thanksgiving, Christmas, Kwanzaa, Hanukkah, and New Year’s while taking your partner’s needs into account as well.

Don’t show up empty-handed

Etiquette 101: Never show up empty-handed! Before heading over to meet your new partner’s family, grab a few small gifts or food items to bring.

Think about bringing a classy bottle of wine, a bouquet of red poinsettias, or thoughtful trinkets everyone will love.

Try to remember everyone’s names

One of the best ways to prove that you care is by remembering the names of the people you’re interacting with.

Have your partner school you on the names of his relatives before you meet them so you’ll become a little more familiar with everyone.

Don’t be a fake version of yourself

You definitely want to put your best foot forward around your partner’s family, but you should still remain true to yourself.

Be authentic. If you love curse words and you prefer wearing see-through outfits, you might want to dial that stuff back for a moment while making first impressions. But for the most part, just be yourself.